An unplanned pregnancy can bring up many emotions—and even disagreements. If your partner wants an abortion, but you feel strongly about continuing the pregnancy, it can create tension and confusion about what to do next.
First, know this: the final decision is yours.
No one—not your partner, friends, or family—can make this decision for you. You are the one carrying the pregnancy, and your choice will directly impact your body and your future the most. That’s why it’s so essential to make a decision you feel confident and comfortable with, without pressure.
If you’re struggling to navigate this situation, schedule a confidential appointment at Pathways Pregnancy Resource Center. We’re here to support you and offer resources in a safe environment.
Learning Your Partner’s Perspective
In many cases, a partner’s desire for abortion comes from a place of fear—fear about finances, the future, or being unprepared for fatherhood. Have an honest conversation to express your thoughts and concerns, and ask him to share his, too.
Let him know why you want to keep the baby. Explain how this decision reflects what you want for the future and protects your mental well-being. While you may not fully agree, understanding each other’s feelings can lead to more mutual respect and cooperation moving forward.
He may come around and change his mind, or he may not. Either way, he cannot force you to have an abortion. It’s your decision.
You Have Support in Bristol, TN
You may worry about how to raise a child without his full support, but help is available. Pathways Pregnancy Resource Center offers free, confidential support services that can make a real difference, including:
- Pregnancy and parenting education
- Material support such as diapers, formula, clothing, and baby gear
- Referrals for housing, healthcare, and financial assistance
- Support groups and classes to strengthen your emotional and practical readiness
- Information about all your pregnancy options, including adoption and parenting
We’re also here for your partner, if he’s open to parenting education or joining you in future appointments. Many couples find common ground once they better understand what support is available.
Make the Choice That’s Right for You
While it’s important to consider your partner’s thoughts, the choice is ultimately yours. You deserve to feel at peace with whatever decision you make. Don’t let fear or pressure decide for you.
Contact Pathways Pregnancy Resource Center today for the clarity and support you need. We’re here to walk with you, every step of the way.