Are you being pressured into an abortion decision by family or friends? Sometimes, being pressured is obvious. But other times, it can be difficult to tell.
This article will highlight the subtle signs that you’re being pressured into an abortion decision. However, if you’re looking for a safe space to talk about your pregnancy options and learn more, we’re here for you.
Here are a few potential signs that you’re being pressured:
1. Feeling Overwhelmed by Outside Opinions
One of the most common signs that you’re being pressured is when family members, friends, or your partner repeatedly express their opinions on abortion, ignoring or dismissing your thoughts and feelings. If you find that your desires aren’t being respected or considered in conversations, this may be a red flag.
2. Being Given Ultimatums
If your partner or someone close to you is making statements like, “If you don’t have an abortion, I’ll leave you,” or “You’ll be on your own if you keep the baby,” this is a clear sign of coercion. These kinds of ultimatums can create fear and anxiety, making it difficult to make a decision based on your true feelings.
3. Lack of Support for Other Options
You should have the freedom to explore all of your options, including parenting and adoption. If those around you are dismissing alternatives or not offering support for any choice other than abortion, this is another indication of pressure.
4. Feeling Rushed
A pressured decision often comes with a sense of urgency. If you’re being told to act quickly without the opportunity to consider all your options, this can signal that others are pushing you into a decision before you’re ready.
We’re Here for You
If you notice any signs of being pressured into an abortion, it’s important to take a step back from those who are pressuring you so that you can focus on how you’re feeling and why.
Removing yourself from family and friends who are pressuring you can feel lonely, but you’re not alone. At Pathways Pregnancy Resource Center, we’re here for you.
Contact us today to learn about all the ways we can help. While the choice about how to move forward is yours, we’re here to provide support every step of the way.