Facing an unexpected pregnancy can feel overwhelming—like your entire world has been turned upside down. And wanting to hide your pregnancy from family and friends right now is understandable. While abortion will terminate your pregnancy, getting an abortion to hide the pregnancy from your family and friends isn’t advised.
This article will help you examine your reasons for wanting to hide your pregnancy and discuss some next steps. However, if you’re looking for a safe space to talk where you don’t have to hide—we’re here.
Evaluate Why You Want to Hide Your Pregnancy
It’s so essential not to rush into a pregnancy decision but instead take your time to really think through your feelings and what you want for the future. And an important part of your thought process is to consider why you want to hide your pregnancy.
Do you want to hide your pregnancy because you’re ashamed? Scared of how everyone will react? Unsure how to move forward?
While hiding your pregnancy in the short-term will give you the space to think through these things, hiding isn’t a long-term solution.
Consider Your Reasons for Wanting an Abortion
Abortion is a permanent decision that comes with risks to your mental and physical health, which is why it’s critical to evaluate your reasons for wanting an abortion.
Are you hoping that an abortion will make all your problems go away? Do you think an abortion will help you avoid telling anyone about the pregnancy?
While these motivations are understandable, you don’t want to make a decision you will regret. The best way to ensure you’re making a choice that you can live with long-term is to understand how abortion works and what other choices are available—and most importantly, understand what you want for your future instead of considering everyone else’s opinions.
Next Steps
Before making any rushed decisions, it’s vital to take the time to understand how you feel and what you want for your future. Only then will you be able to make the right decision for you and your future.
At Pathways Pregnancy Resource Center, we’re here for you. We provide a safe, nonjudgmental environment where you can talk through your feelings and learn more about your options.
Contact us today to schedule your free, confidential appointment.